A BOOK BY DR. FEMKE BAKKER

The Selfgentleness Perspective

A gentler way of seeing yourself.

You've done the inner work. You know what gentleness toward yourself feels like. And still, when life gets hard, you find yourself back at the beginning. This book is about why that happens, and what it takes to change it for good.

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WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR

For self-aware people who are tired of fixing themselves. Who have done significant inner work and keep returning to self-criticism and people-pleasing. Who know what selfgentleness feels like and want the shift to finally hold.

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